Let me be the first to send a “thank you” in return to the people who always advocate for Matrix and similar open source alternatives on here without acknowledging that performance, UI and on-boarding with those are just absolutely awful compared to Discord, and that is not because performance and UI on Discord are great.

Yeah, tried Matrix a few time and it is honestly just unusable, even for myself, never mind convincing other people to join it.

You mean the Venn diagram between poor ideas and ideas originating from marketing?