I have my friends and family on Matrix.

My instance is over 7 years old.

Love it, can’t imagine being without it.

You can integrate it with Jitsi (also self hosted) and call, screenshare and whatever else you want there.

I thought that was for their hosted websites, had no idea whether they even do hosting/cloud infra.

But yes, I hate them to my core.

Lol what?

I thought they just did rate limiting and such, I can’t believe they do SSL as well.